The If He Had Been with Me books must be read in publication order by following this sequence:⁠[2-3]

Order Cover Title First published Notes
1 Book cover of If He Had Been with Me. If He Had Been with Me Year of publication: 2013⁠[3] Introduces Autumn and Finn’s relationship and the tragedy.
2 Book cover of If Only I Had Told Her. If Only I Had Told Her Year of publication: 2024⁠[2] Reframes the first book’s events and continues into the aftermath.

1. If He Had Been with Me

Main bookRequired reading
Book cover of If He Had Been with Me.
Book cover of If He Had Been with Me.

If He Had Been with Me (2013)⁠[1] establishes the central relationship between Autumn Davis and Phineas “Finny” Smith, tracing their childhood closeness, their high-school separation, and their gradual return to one another. This novel is framed by Autumn’s retrospective voice and by the fatal event that shapes the story.⁠[3]

It should be read first because it supplies the emotional and narrative foundation for the next book.⁠[3]

2. If Only I Had Told Her

Main bookRequired reading
Book cover of If Only I Had Told Her.
Book cover of If Only I Had Told Her.

If Only I Had Told Her (2024)⁠[2] revisits the final stretch of Autumn and Finn’s story through Finn’s perspective, then shifts into Jack’s account of grief, memory, and the lives affected by Finn’s death.⁠[4]

This book adds context to events already introduced in If He Had Been with Me and carries the aftermath forward.⁠[4]

References

  1. If He Had Been with Me. Sourcebooks Fire. Copyright page. ISBN: 9781728205489.
  2. If Only I Had Told Her. Sourcebooks.
  3. If He Had Been with Me. Sourcebooks Fire. ISBN: 9781728205489.
  4. If Only I Had Told Her. Sourcebooks Fire. ISBN: 9781728276229.